Tell him how you feel. Don’t leave him to ‘figure it out’ because we all know that he will most likely not take the hint. Let him spill his heart out to you. Whether it’s good or bad, you will get some sort of closure. But if he still remembers your favorite color after 9 months apart, he’s probably still in love with you.
cp (via fawun)
Sometimes we become attached to what’s familiar, and sometimes we hold on to things that are safe and predictable, even if they are bad for us.
Greg Behrendt, It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken (via h-o-r-n-g-r-y)
Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark.
N’tima (via skeletales)
Be with someone who you don’t have to hide from, in any way. Whether it’s your morning face before you’ve put any make up on, an embarrassing story about something that happened on your way home, or an ambition you’ve had since you were six years old… make sure you end up with someone who listens to and accepts all of it, and still loves you. A person you can tell your whole life to is a person worth spending a life with.
i show my affection to my friends by gently bullying them